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    August 24

    Chicken soup for life-bad days

    Everyone will have bad days periodically. It’s inevitable just like the sun will be buried by the clouds when it’s going to rain. But the Sun has never been defeated by the bad weather. It’s not as miserable as it seems to be. It’s quite common that you just wake up in a really bad mood, and may be there’s something or nothing has made you angry, sad, frustrated, and disappointed when you were at your work.

    Every time we finish our work, and this day turns out a bad day. We tell ourselves, “That couldn’t be any worse.” It seems like that everything was messed up. Someone took your umbrella by mistake. Your girlfriend was talking loudly on the phone, again! Your computer broke down without any sign. And it’s raining outside. You are really lucky to be the most unlucky guy today. “Hey man, this sucks!” that’s not fun. Every word sounds incredibly stupid to you. You can’t even figure out what the hell wrong with all the troubles around you.

    Come on! It’s not so hard for you. May be the bad mood just come from a bad meal. It’s really crazy for you to force yourself to cheer up while you are definitely in a bad mood. Why not accept it. We need time baby. Let it off! So if you’re mad, be mad. If you’re sad, be sad. But remember do not disturb others’ life. They are innocents. Though you got a bad day, it doesn’t mean you got a license for you to be rude to the bystanders. May be you can find another way to seek yourself back.

    It’s true that everything was bad that day. But good things in your memory are always good. Yesterday, your girlfriend appreciated the flowers you bought her. Last week, you went out for a great tremendous ball game. Your happiness is probably still there. They won’t slip away as time does. You’re just not seeing them. Try to take a few minutes. Calm yourself. There is at least one or two things that were not bad could make you feel better.

    Also, taking a walk after your dinner is kind of better way to sweep away the clouds upon your head. Some emotional songs you like can kill your bad time. Or just to stay in somewhere quietly? What if going to bed now! Just immediately end the bad day. If it is still not going to work, call your best friend. He is priceless. I believe he won’t care even you call him at midnight. And conversations might free yourself and help you to turn around the bad day.

    We believe that you can get over it. “Everything is O.K.?”Tell yourselves. “This won’t last long.” You have been in a bad mood before, and it passed. So will this one. It’s just not a big deal.

     

    P.S. Don't make any decisions when you're in a bad mood - financial, emotional, etc. Let the negative state pass, before you choose poorly.

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